"Through the years, I've found that people are quick to tell you what they love and what they hate. But ask them what they want and they have to stop to think about it. They can quickly tell you in general terms – more money, a better marriage, a lower golf score, a better job, and so on. However, if you will give you the specifics, because they haven't taken the time to figure them out. For example, in their careers, almost no one can tell me where they want to be in three years, five years, or ten years. And without a specific destination, they certainly haven't planned a route or schedule to get there. On the other hand, super achievers – those who strive for their impossible dreams and achieve them – know exactly where they want to go and how they want to get there. They usually create a map and a timetable for reaching each intermediate goal along the way."
By discovering and deepening our whys, I believe we have the opportunity to bring our lives and careers into line with our values, if we do this we will become more successful in everything we do.
Identify your whys...
(our whys motivate and drive our behaviour and ultimately determine our level of success, significance, and fulfillment we achieve in any endeavour or on any project.)
Today's Soul Wave...take a couple of minutes to consider something you want and what your "whys" are. Then expand that thought into deepening your why....feels good doesn't it?
1) personal gratification
2) money and material possessions
3) The approval or applause of others
4) fear of failure, fear of criticism, fear of consequences, fear of loss.
5) survival instinct
6) personal achievement
9) connection to God
#lifecoach #beliefs #whatdoyouwant #value #innerguidance #gratification #success #significance #fulfillment #selfdiscovery #nlp #icanhelpyou
"Commitment to love – to spiritual growth, to creating authentic power – is a down-in-the-soil, every day application of your will to use each of your experiences to create constructive instead of destructive consequences, harmony instead of discord, to share instead of hoard, cooperate instead of compete, and ...revere life instead of exploit life. It is the determination to act from the healthiest parts of your personality, create more joy and less pain, more meaning and less emptiness, and more love and less fear in your life no matter what. The commitment to love makes Aloha possible. Nothing else can. It keeps Native traditions alive. Nothing else can. It enables slaves and descendants of slaves to love instead of hate. Nothing else can. It empowered Viktor Frankl, Martin Luther King Jr., Gandhi, and Malcolm X to open their hearts. Nothing else could. It enables you to finally, at last, challenge and heal the frightened parts of your personality and cultivate the loving parts. Nothing else can."
Today's Soul waves:
1) Focus on what you can learn about yourself from your reactions.
2) Pay attention to where you feel emotions in your body.
3) Be aware of your thoughts.
4) Recognize your intentions.
#emotionalintelligence #spiritualintelligence #commitment #authenticpower #love #528 #soulwave #spiritual-mentor #icanhelpyou
The outcome of your life depends on how you deal with its darkest moments. Will they be turning points or setbacks? What we call wisdom comes into play here, for most people make important decisions based on impulse or it's opposite, habit. They feel the tug of emotions, which are never more powerful when the mind is in disarray.
But wisdom can be an incentive to conquer the difficulties, transforming frustration and defeat into turning points and breakthroughs.
Anytime things go badly wrong, ask yourself three questions, all of which are geared to turn the mines disarray into an orderly process that the brain can follow and organize physically.
1) Is this a problem I should fix, put up with, or walk away from?
2) whom can I consult who has solved the same problem successfully?
3) how can I reach deeper into myself for solutions?
#solutions #thrive #lifecoach #turningpoints #questionsopendoors #youvegotthis #conquerfear #soulwaves #528 #psychic #nlp #hypnosis #healing #energy
"Knowing the law of polarity is helpful. This law represents the universal reality that everything is dual, everything has a polar opposite, everything had a complementary expression. Opposite are identical in nature, but different in the degree of expression and experience. In other words, there are two sides to everything. Things that appear to be opposite are, in fact, extremes of the same thing. We may believe that heat and cold are different. They appear to be opposite when the truth is they are simply varying degrees of the same thing: the temperature. This reality applies to love and hate, peace and war, positive and negative, good and evil, yes and no, light and darkness, energy and matter. What transforms your experience or expression of anything or anyone is how you relate to it and what you understand about it."
Today's Soul Wave...What in your life are you perceiving right now to be a "bad" thing? Take a moment to look at the possible "good" that has or will come from this.
Often with clients, I don't ask them to go from depressed or sad to happy or from anxiety to peace in a session. I invite directly, yet gently to explore the various degrees in between polarity - to guide them into the highest vibration possible for them.
What good feeling do you have today, that you could shift into a great feeling?
#polarity #universallaws #expandyourperspective #possibilities #oneness #psychic #intuitive #lifecoach #soulwave #528
"How can people fulfill their roles as equilibrators if they are not even in the picture anymore? How can they do anything for us if they've gone missing or if they have crossed over?
What you're about to read may challenge you at first, so I'm asking you now to think deeply, beyond your normal thoughts, because I guarantee that there's a great gift for you in this." It's been my observation after working with tens of thousands of people both in one on one consultations and in groups that nothing is missing. If you look carefully -and you may have to probe deeply into your memory banks to withdraw this treasure - when an individual departs your life, someone else, or many others, emerge to demonstrate the very traits that the departed person used to show you."
Today's Soul Wave...When someone departs from your life, whether it's through death or because the person moves away – physically or emotionally – there's truly no abandonment; there's simply transformation."
#youareneveralone #presence is always there. #spirit is #eternal #youaresupported #transformation supports and guides you. #528+++ #intuitive #lifecoach #medium #soulwaves #loveneverdies
"One of the most important steps in the loving what arises is learning how to re-write your subconscious mind. By allowing "I love you" to become a familiar phrase that you offer to your self on a regular basis, love is no longer interpreted as a foreign invasion.
Simply by treasuring your heart more often, you provide your body the much needed permission to receive the highest vibration in existence that only love can deliver. With your body calibrated in greater resonance, you access an innate ability to change all past associations to love that may have influenced you to have a painful or sceptical view of it. Such resonance also informs your immune system how to act since the body tends to function as a living expression of the most popular phrase recorded in your subconscious mind."
There have been many dark days in my life where I didn't love myself and wouldn't let others love me. Retreating into myself but never allowing inner awareness. Deep wounding of being hurt by those who were supposed to "love me" held me back for years. What has helped me greatly is my ability to be vulnerable to love others and share love as it has recalibrated me from the inside out.
Today's Soul Wave...I invite you to go just a little deeper and notice your inner feedback, inner mindset, inner voice. I invite you to recognize the current state of your body. What is being expressed? Bring yourself back into your beautiful heart, bathe in that space say "I love you". Repeat "I love you" until that feeling builds and then witness your recalibration.
#mindset #nlp #loveyourselffirst #iloveyou #soulshifter #subconscious #programming #youareenough #lifecoach #psychic #hypnosis #feelbetter #icanhelpyou #528
"The substance of a dream is held in materialization by the subconscious thought of the dreamer. When that cohesive thought is withdrawn in wakefulness, the dream and its elements dissolve. A man closes his eyes and erects a dream creation, which, on awakening, he effortlessly dematerializes. He follows the divine archetypal pattern. Similarly, when he awakens in cosmic consciousness, he effortless dematerializes the illusion of a cosmic-dream universe."
Today's soul wave questions.....Are you living in a dream? Are you asleep or awake in consciousness? How do you know? What is your ultimate reality?
#iread #subconscious #programming #consciousnessshift #yogananda #awakening #cosmic #dream. #intuitive #transformation #lifecoach #soulshifter #528
"Every decision we make either takes us closer or further away from ourselves. Often it's hard to tune in to the subtle energy, but deep down everything is either a 'yes' or 'no'. Feel good or feel not as good. Brightness or darkness. Avoidance or coming home."
Have you ever noticed how much better we feel on sunny days? We are naturally drawn to the light! Light is what fuels us, we are light beings.
Today's soul wave is to tune in to your inner awareness. Close your eyes and start repeating yes, yes, yes out loud. Notice how it feels and where you feel it in your body. Then repeat no, no, no and notice how it feels and where you feel it. By practicing this you will begin to tune into your inner guidance system - your soul GPS.
When you are next faced with decisions, internally repeat yes then no and discover which word has the greatest charge. Which word feels lighter? That will give you the inner wisdom of which choice is right for you.
#lifecoach #innerlight #intuition #soulwaves #wisdom #psychic #transformation #528
"Maybe you fear that you are not original enough. Maybe that's the problem – you're worried that your ideas are commonplace and pedestrian, and therefore unworthy of creation.
Aspiring writers will often tell me, "I have an idea, but I'm afraid it's already been done."
Well, yes, it probably has already been done. Most things have already been done – but they have not yet been done by you."
Today's soul wave is that you are completely unique and you have your own special magic. You came to this planet at this time to contribute to the "all" with your unique way, gifts and skills. Stop trying to be different, stop trying to be the same. Embrace BEING just as you are authentically, wholeheartedly and unapologetically then get out there and enjoy the flow of moment to moment as today is the day you will be remembered.
#authentic #original #soulwaves #youarebeautiful #bigmagic #elizabethgilbert #528+++
"Growing is all about leaps into the seeming unknown. Before you can find your way home, you must linger in the place of not knowing. Stay here until the next step organically arises. Sit until the questions that need to be lived show themselves. By surrendering to the unknown, you create the space for a deeper knowing to emerge.
Befriend your confusion. Don't be fooled by it's chaotic appearance - this is good confusion. It's a sign that your soul is in transition. Welcome it as a friend that has come from far away to bring you home. Be open to it. Keep it close."
Today's soul wave is the reminder to tune into your inner guidance system and to have the patience and hold the courage to sit in the waiting. So many are in soul transition and feeling it right now. We are all shifting, no need to fight it. Embrace the chaos, the drama, your thoughts, then sink deeper within, beyond it to your truth.
#psychic #intuitive #icanhelp #lifecoach #innerpeace #surrender #wisdom #nlp #hypnosis #soulwaves
amazing book btw!
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