Words for basic notions, feelings, and reactions are the words that are most important to us; love, hate, friendship, family, God, man, justice. We think with them at a primitive level. A girl counting flower petals, "He loves me, he loves me not," is actually asking "What is love? What kind of love? What does each of us mean when we speak love?" When we say "I love you", "I hate you","I want to marry you", "I want to be your friend," - we are using words that, in many cases, we do not really understand. Because we know these words for such a long time, because we seem to know their meaning so well, we never have the chance to really understand what they mean. When we grapple with the meaning of the words, we discover what they are. Through this process of trying to understand, the words may become very different; sometimes we also get a new understanding of ourselves and what we have been doing all our lives. This understanding in itself is a revelation.
Today's Soul Wave...
Clarifying our understanding of simple words will not just change our way of speaking; it will also change our way of thinking and change our basic feelings. When we know certain things about those words, we become different people; we are re-created.
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The OODA Loop was created by an Air Force fighter pilot who served in the Korean War by the name of John Boyd. He crafted a framework for making rapid decisions that would ensure success in fast changing environments. Boyd's OODA loop is as pertinent to business as it is to aerial combat.
The OODA loop consists of four steps. OBSERVE what is happening and process as much information from as many sources as possible. ORIENT those observations by distinguishing the relevant from the significant. DECIDE on a course of action and select one path. ACT to execute the decision – keeping in mind that the action is not at the end, because the loop flows continuously.
The OODA loop is not just about moving faster. It is about being able to generate the necessary time to examine a problem before taking action.
Today's Soul Wave... How can you apply the OODA loop to your personal growth? Observe where you are. Orient your situation through the perspective of what matters to you. Decide what will move you in the direction of what you want to feel, have or do. Then, take bold decisive action.
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Habits, scientists say, emerge because the brain is constantly looking for ways to save effort. Left to its own devices, the brain will try to make almost any routine into a habit, because habits allow our minds to ramp down more often. This effort saving instinct is a huge advantage. And efficient brain requires less room, which makes for a smaller head, which makes childbirth easier and therefore causes few were infant and mother desk. And efficient brain also allows... us to stop thinking constantly about basic behaviors, such as walking and choosing what to eat, so we can devote mental energy to inventing spears, irrigation systems, and, eventually, airplanes in video games.
But conserving mental effort is tricky, because if our brains power down at the wrong moment, we might fail to notice something important, such as a predator hiding in the bushes or a speeding car as we pull onto the street. So our basal ganglia have devised a clever system to determine when to let habits take over. It's something that happens whenever a chunk of behaviour starts or ends.
This process within our brains is a three-step loop. First, there is a cue, a trigger that tells your brain to go into automatic mode and which habit to use. Then there is the routine, which can be physical or mental or emotional. Finally there is a reward, which helps your brain figure out if this particular loop is worth remembering for the future.
Today's Soul Wave...Habits aren't destiny. Simply understanding how habits work – learning the structure of the habit loop – makes them easier to control. Once you break a habit into its components, you can fiddle with the gears.
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If you don't like some of the circumstances of your life, by all means don't think about them. This may sound like a paradox to you, in this match game, you want to match up with the Spirit of creation. You must train your imagination (which is the universal mind running through you) to shift from what you don't want to what you do want. All of that ...mental energy you spend complaining about what is - to anyone who will listen – is a magnet for attracting more of what is into your life. You, and only you, can overcome this impediment because you've put it on your path to intention. Simply change your inner speech to what you intend the new circumstances of your life to be. Practice thinking from the end by playing the match game, and by realigning yourself with the field of intention. In example:
No Match: I dislike the work I'm doing and the fact that I'm not appreciated.
Match: I'll act upon my inner intuitive impulses to create the work or job of my dreams.
No Match: I hate the fact that I'm sick so often and always seem to be getting colds.
Match: I am divine health. I intend to act in healthy ways and attract the power to strengthen my immune system in every way I can.
You must learn to assume responsibility for the circumstances of your life without any accompanying guilt. The circumstances of your life aren't the way they are because of karmic debt or because you're being punished. The circumstances of your life, including your health, are yours. Somehow they showed up in your life, so just assume that you participated in all of it. You're inner speech is uniquely your own creation, and it's responsible for attracting more of the circumstances that you don't want.
Today's Soul Wave... link up with intention, use your inner speech to stay focused on what you intend to create, and you'll find yourself regaining the power of your Source. Choose to focus on the "match"
#powerofintention #innerthoughtsouterreality #trainyourmind #feelbetter #realign #attractmoreofwhatyouwant #nlp #coaching #icanhelpyou #soulwaves #528+++
The fourth tenet of Intuitive Intelligence, leading by influence, is probably it's most essential aspect. Leading by influence is about relinquishing control and allowing the natural creative process of evolution. This may seem paradoxical, but in other cultures it is not. In Zen Buddhism the master leads his disciples in their apprenticeship through questions, not commands. When the Chiefs of Native American villages were asked what decision to make, the chief would answer with a question, not an order. Exerting power and control is not necessarily the best form of leadership, especially not when you wish to develop autonomy and creativity among your team members. Although conventional wisdom regarding leadership is about aligning objectives, strategies, and people, leadership by influence recognizes that dissonance and tension, ambiguity and complexity, chaos in the unknown are equally important and necessary aspects of business. This is why this type of leadership cannot seek control; chaos cannot be controlled, and complexity makes it hard to determine the outcome of one's strategy, so influence is more effective than control.To lead by influence means to guide without control over the outcome. In a complex global economy in which creativity is rated the top business skill, a keen understanding of this new way of leadership is mandatory to innovate, reinvent, motivate, change, and make an organization successful.
Today's Soul Wave .... Whether you work in a corporation, small business or for yourself, think about yourself as a leader. Think holistically, think paradoxically, listen for the unusual and lead by influence. This will enable you to overcome, evolve, adapt and imagine to create synergies, growth and expansion.
#intuitivecompass #bealeader #influence #balancereasonandinstinct #intuitiveintelligence #betterbusiness #growth #createyourdestiny #icanhelpyou #lifecoach #businesscoach #mindcoachextraordinaire #soulwaves #528+++
"Those who have the courage to discover and bring forth their genius breakthrough to unparallelled height of productivity and life satisfaction.
Discovering your Zone of Genius is your life's Big Leap. Everything up until now has been about hops, not leaps. Hopping, though it seem safe, it's actually hazardous to your health. If you confine yourself to hops, you run the risk of rusting from the inside out.
I had gotten to a place in my life where I could almost sleepwalk through doing all the things that kept me successful – writing books, giving speeches, coaching executives, teaching seminars. I did them and did them and did them, and the money kept pouring in. Soon there were employees, a big building, three houses, and an army of support personnel that needed to be fed. I remember well the day it all imploded.
The source was an Upper Limit Problem. I had gotten comfortably numb in my Zone of Excellence. Fortunately, I got the message in time - I want to make sure you do too.
We all need to be on the lookout for signs of our Upper Limit Problem every day of our lives. It's a constant quest, because we're always raising the bar on ourselves. The better we get, the better we want to be. Part of us wants very much to live in our Zone of Genius. Yet at the same time, we are tied down by forces around us. The people around us want us to stay in our Zone of Excellence. We are a lot more reliable there."
Today's Soul Wave....In your Zone of Genius, time feels completely different. Time seems to expand to support your activities. You have plenty of time to do what you most want to do. In your Zone of Genius, time doesn't fly- it flows. Are you ready to commit to living in your Zone of Genius?
#zoneofgenius #bigleap #breakthroughlimits #keepstretching #lifecoach #businesscoach #supersoulshiftingcoach #icanhelpyou #timeflows #soulwaves #528hz
You can either welcome change or hate it. You can either consciously direct yourself into feeling positive in life or let yourself be swept into unexamined fear. As always, it's a choice.
It's also important to note that the expectation of these three kinds of pain – loss, process, and outcome – doesn't just arise in us when outside forces introduce a new change into our lives. They also well up when we choose to make a change in our lives. Let's say you finally decide to improve your health, and instead of your boss changing your career, you decide to do it.
You feel motivated, and you think, it's time to go on a diet, stop smoking, exercise regularly, and get a new job. Regardless of how pumped you are about making these changes, somewhere in your mind the pains of loss, process, and outcome will rear their ugly heads. You must be prepared to counter them.
To hold down these fears and gain momentum against process pain, you have to stop focussing on the painful effort required to change, and start focusing on the pleasurable experiences that will come from the process.
Today's Soul Wave...Changing the way you think of change may be the most powerful mindset shift you will ever make in your life. Begin seeing change as pleasurable and something that brings in new learning and growth no matter what. At this level, when you enjoy change, the charge in life really intensifies.
#chargedlife #mindshift #changeyourthoughtschangeyourlife #fear #choosechange #nlp #supersoulshiftingcoach #changecoaching #youcandoit #soulwaves #528
"The majority of shame researchers and clinicians agree that the difference between shame and guilt is best understood as the differences between "I am bad" and "I did something bad."
Today's Soul Wave is especially pertinent for 2 reasons:
1) Emergence is one of my all time favourite books.
2) I got called out last night on my "inaction" (and I'm grateful)
As Thoreau observed, The sad fact of the human experience is that most people lead lives of quiet desperation, never saying yes to the yes with in them, waiting for some perfect or safe condition to finally act upon their deepest desires – a condition that never comes. It can't, because it won't come to them; rather, it must come through them. This doesn't just lead to an unlived life; it leads to many of the problems that plague people. When we don't honour the emerging impulse with in us, we withhold gifts from our friends, family, and the rest of the world. Think of all the inventions, breakthrough ideas, transformational wisdom, And timeless masterpieces that never find their way into expression because an individual who was born to express them did not act. The cures for everything that ails us – and the inspiration for creating a life beyond our wildest dreams - are right now sitting in the consciousness of humanity, like seeds waiting to germinate, waiting for those courageous enough to cultivate the conditions for their emergence.
Today's Soul Wave...What's inside of you waiting to emerge? Where are you withholding the gifts you came here to give? Take the chance. You have nothing to lose except a life of mediocrity.
#alifewelllived #youhavegiftswithinyou #emergence #whatareyouwaitingfor #iminegifts #takeaction #imanemergencecoach #lifecoach #soulwaves #528
How to Live the 9 Essentials
1) Have a higher purpose that goes beyond yourself.
2) Value intimacy and communion – with nature, other people, the whole of life.
3) Keep yourself open to change. From moment to moment since everything in your environment.
4) Nurture acceptance for all others as your equals, without judgment or prejudice.
5) Relish your creativity. Sees on the renewed freshness of today, not clinging to the old and outworn.
6) Feel how your being is cradled in the natural rhythms and patterns of the universe. Embrace the reality that you are safe and nurtured.
7) Let The flow of life bring you what you need. The ideal of efficiency is allowing nature to take care of you. Force, control, and struggle or not your way.
8) Feel A sense of bonding with your source, the immortality of life itself.
9) Be generous. Commit yourself to giving as the reason for all abundance.
Today's Soul Wave...Doing these nine things, cooperating with your body's wisdom, not opposing it, will help you feel better and lay the foundation for a fulfilled life.
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